Need help. Don't know what to feel
bro I have such a weird situation that I don't know what to feel..
I have a friend and she's a girl but for some reason I definitely don't feel any attraction to her at all but she's the only girl I feel awkward around and I've worked with her on a million group projects
But the thing is I feel like I've gotten too attached
I'll literally be proud of myself for purposefully working with my other friends or walking home instead
And I think I'm too nice to her at some points so sometimes I just come out as too rude
I get incredibly defensive when anyone says I have a crush on her which I don't
I always consider her in group projects.. I try to crack jokes around her
What the hell am I doing ???
I've only been friends with her since the year started
I don't feel this way with any other girl
Idk what Im doin
Help me
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Re: Help me
Maybe you're just uncomfortable around her? I mean, it not a bad thing to have a crush on her ofc, but if you're sure that's not the case then maybe you just don't like her, and that's okay too 
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Re: Help me
"If you don't feel anything, that's okay, she's just a friend. Loving someone doesn't necessarily mean having an intimate relationship. A woman is not an object to be conquered; she is just a human being. So, act like a normal person and be her friend. Sometimes women need male friends who don't have a romantic interest in them."
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